indecision leads no where.

it makes interpersonal effectiveness difficult.
It reduces i.e. - that's what I taught to a group yesterday. And it dawned on me that it's often my problem. Well, that and emotional responses that often prevent me from acting appropriately, or making a decision.

I end up stuck with nothing if I cannot make a decision, and that I suppose is the decision I made.

I need to use Radical Acceptance - to make a decision and accept it, use mindfulness to not worry about the other choice, but to accept the choices that I do in fact make. That was thanks to the wisdom of one of the teens in program. I wish I had been clever enough to think of it myself.

Maybe I can use that to become more decisive, so I don't ruin the relationships around me because I can't make choices quick enough, or at all in some cases.
blah.

gotta go to work now. Maybe I'll have more lovely revelations while I'm there.
Then to mass for Holy Thursday.
Can't believe it's almost Easter already. Seems like the year just began.